tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4770354865100906374.post1642975313448986287..comments2023-05-15T09:51:54.441-04:00Comments on Victorya Chase Goes To Therapy: Gynecologist’s VisitUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4770354865100906374.post-71572879121674675862007-06-27T09:55:00.000-04:002007-06-27T09:55:00.000-04:00You must pick it apart, over and again, disassembl...You must pick it apart, over and again, disassemble it, so it loses the power it holds over you. As an adult, I had a sister I could do that with. (Sure was a pain the arse when she wanted to drag me through HER painful memories, though!) It became better therapy than any shrink could offer - the common ground and shared secrets diffused a lot of the helplessness. You are incrediblly brave, remarkablly astute, and extremely intelligent, but most of all.. you are a SURVIVOR, my friend. xShrink Wrapped Screamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12760625376352251212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4770354865100906374.post-39717076686328431122007-06-26T12:04:00.000-04:002007-06-26T12:04:00.000-04:00Yes, I believe tears are necessary on occasion he ...Yes, I believe tears are necessary on occasion he he he...<BR/><BR/>Just be kind to yourself: this is actually my own resolution for this year he he he...Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4770354865100906374.post-770796580968212322007-06-26T10:53:00.000-04:002007-06-26T10:53:00.000-04:00Actually, you might be on to something. Not only ...Actually, you might be on to something. Not only didn't I get to live my childhood, but I really never got to mourn it's loss either.<BR/><BR/>Perhaps tears are okay on occassion :)Victoryahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18256314171695734487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4770354865100906374.post-54320744765387687482007-06-26T10:45:00.000-04:002007-06-26T10:45:00.000-04:00I think you're doing it marvellously, as well, Vic...I think you're doing it marvellously, as well, Vic. I think oftentimes we need to give ourselves time to mourn over sad events/experiences. At least for me it helps me move on. If I deny myself the mourning period, I'll never be able to move on. So I think crying over it is good for a period of time, and then you can let it go. <BR/><BR/>I salute you for your bravery to face your dark memories. Keep up the GOOD WORK, girl!!! :-)))) I know you'll make it through...one step at a time...one moment at a time!!!Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.com